Wednesday, November 28, 2007

There I was, naked in the refrigerator.....

My husband I have this "thing" that we do.

Some who witness it think it is cute, some wonder how we do it, some wonder why we do it, some think we are simply a court hearing away from a much needed vacation at a "spa like facility", and then others just chalk it up to us being us.

What we do, is have complete conversations using only movie lines, punchlines from jokes, or songs. Seriously. And we know exactly what we are saying. Others around us, not so much. But after 15 years of marriage (Holy cow!! 15 years???!!! How did THAT happen?) we have come to be able to communicate on our own level.

Isn't that what marriage is all about? Having fun and laughing with your best friend.

Jay and I have known couples over the past 15 years that have divorced, some couples that are going thru the motions, some that are staying married for the kids, and some that have truly confounded us on why they got together in the first place. But after all is said and done, and I think about what marriage means, I have to pinch myself. I am blessed to be married to my best friend.

I have said it often~~Jay and I are that odd couple that actually likes to be around each other.

One of my away messages for AIM is "Sexiness wears thin after a while and beauty fades, but to be married to a man who makes you laugh every day, ah, now that's a real treat." by Joanne Woodward.

He makes me laugh